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Bondage has had a certain hipness factor since “Fifty Shades of Gray” at the latest. Behind closed doors, everything is tied up and gagged. GALA reveals what you need to know about bondage and what you need for bondage games.

Regardless of whether the sun is shining or the snow and the temperatures are falling, it can get hot in your bedroom at any time. Bondage is one of many erotic ways to inspire your love life.

Regardless of whether you are in a new relationship or want to heat up a long-term partnership: Bondage can be an exhilarating experience for you and your partner. The prerequisites for this, however, are trust, clear agreements and mutual agreement.

What is bondage?

The word bondage comes from English and means, among other things, bondage and bondage. The erotic game with shackles comes from the BDSM scene, the abbreviations stand for “Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism”.

Bondage as a pleasure is that Play with power and a sensual art of bondage. It’s about Dominance, submission, letting go, relinquishing control, sexual pleasure, eroticism, ecstasy. Everything accompanied by lacquer, leather, ropes, shackles, scarves, whips, handcuffs, gags and much more. Everything is possible, nothing is neccesary.

The most important thing: The partners agree on who takes over the dominant and who the submissive part. Trust is the basic requirement for experimenting with bondage.

The rules of bondage

Bondage is a role play. You and your partner can slip into roles that have nothing to do with your personalities in everyday life. While the dominant part embodies power and control, the submissive partner puts himself in a defenseless position and is tied up.

He or she surrenders completely and is disciplined. Of course, this can only work in an absolutely safe framework in which both partners respect each other and feel comfortable.

These rules must be observed:

  • Talk about wishes, fears and all no-gos in advance.
  • Determine in advance who will take over the dominant and who will take the submissive part.
  • Agree on a “safeword” in advance, that is, any word for which the action is immediately interrupted.
  • Establish clear personal boundaries.
  • When doing bondage, always keep scissors close at hand so that the bonds can be released immediately if necessary or if you feel unwell.
  • The neck should always be excluded from bondage as there is a massive risk of injury.

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Bondage for beginners: the basic equipment

If you have not had any points of contact with bondage or BDSM to date, but are curious, films, videos or even literature can introduce you to the topic. Just let yourself be inspired and watch how your partner reacts to the new stimuli.

This Bondage counselor guides you from the very first steps to more sophisticated practices. You will find a DVD with instructions here.

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You can find playful, beginner-friendly access to bondage with beautiful towels. This allows delicate bondage games to take place, but also blindfolds. The allure of the unknown and the focus on feeling intoxicate many lovers.

This Blindfold is particularly popular. Next Ropes and shackles also belongs Bondage-Tape basic equipment for beginners.

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Set no limits to your imagination

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When it comes to clothing, there are no limits to the imagination when it comes to bondage. Next Chest straps, Korsagen, Bodys and the classic Leather harness are Overkneestrümpfe Totally hip in the wet look. But also garters and hip belts made of leather are popular with many bondage fans. This copy is particularly beautiful.

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Play with pleasure

Fetish clothing doesn’t have to be expensive. Especially for bondage beginners, expensive pieces of leather are not immediately decisive. Cheap alternatives made of polyester are also suitable to start with and give you a first feel for bondage. This Corsage dress in sizes S to 6XL is a real bargain at a price of less than 25 euros.

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A minidress with a lacquer look also brings out completely new facets in you. Here you can get the heady look in sizes 36 to 50. With it, you will definitely make your partner sweat in any season.

Hard but warm

If you have slowly approached bondage games with scarves, tape or maybe just a tie and have found pleasure in it, the next step comes. We introduce you to accessories that will immerse you in bondage.

Shackles of passion

The main component of bondage is the interplay of control and defenselessness. While the dominant part is in control of the situation, the submissive opponent gives himself up completely and surrenders himself. Many bondage fans find this feeling very liberating and intoxicating. Handcuffs and ankle cuffs are very suitable as an introduction to this game. This set is the bestseller among the bondage sets.

Pure thrill

In bondage, uncertainty, pain and a certain form of fear also play a role. Will my partner punish or reward me now? An interplay of pain and loving caresses is what makes bondage so attractive.

One way to further increase the thrill is the so-called needle wheel. The sharp points of the wheel stimulate the nerves and tickle, but can also be painful if pressed harder. That depends on the dominant partner.

A pin wheel can be very stimulating, especially when the subordinate is tied up and blindfolded. This pinwheel is particularly popular with bondage fans. Also one Stroking pen Used correctly, it can produce pleasurable torments through tickling.

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This is how wax is used

Another possibility of stimulation in bondage is hot candle wax. This can be dripped onto bare skin – the amount is determined by the dominant partner. However, it is recommended to use special low-temperature candles. These consist of pure paraffin and get less hot. These candles are very suitable.

Absolute control

In addition to shackles and ropes, a so-called one is also suitable Harnessto exercise control over the submissive partner. This is a bondage harness that is put on. Various eyelets and straps can also be used to tie.

Bondage with clamps and whips

You go one step further with typical bondage accessories such as Nipple clamps, Crops and Whips. This Bondage-Set is absolutely high quality and still a bargain at under 20 euros. Whips and the like can enrich your bondage experience many times over and provide tingling stimuli that immerse you in new sexual spheres. Approach these accessories slowly and without pressure.

Take it easy

You don’t have to go all out in the first bondage session. Approach the bondage adventure playfully. If everything does not go well the first time, humor helps to deal with mishaps and new impressions.

The most important thing is the honest and respectful exchange and interaction with one another. In a safe environment, bondage can bring out facets of you and your partner that would otherwise have remained hidden. Either way, you can learn a lot about yourself and your relationship.

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